Episode 77: Understanding Grief (Part 2)- Misconceptions About Grief and How to Reframe Them

Welcome to week two of our four-part series on grief. Last week, we discussed grief, what it looks like, and why it feels so hard. This week, we’re tackling a different but equally important topic: misconceptions about grief—the things people say, or we tell ourselves that can make the grieving process even more challenging.

In this episode, we’ll explore:

• Common misconceptions about grief, like “time heals all wounds” and “you just need to get over it.”
• What makes these misconceptions untrue/unhelpful—and how to reframe them with grace and truth.
• Practical strategies for processing unhelpful advice from others without letting it derail your healing.
• The role of mindset in grief and how to cultivate self-talk that supports your healing journey.
• How to recognize when unresolved grief is showing up in unexpected ways, like anger or strained relationships.

Key Takeaways:

• Grief and mourning are not the same. Grief happens internally, while mourning is what others see outwardly.
• There are no predictable timelines or “stages” of grief—you might revisit feelings like anger or denial at different points.
• Grief doesn’t go away if ignored; unprocessed emotions can appear in other areas of life.
• Support from others matters, but self-support—through mindfulness, creative outlets, or rest—is equally important.

Reflection Questions for This Week:

1. What misconceptions about grief have you encountered, and how have they made you feel?
2. How can you reframe these beliefs in a way that supports your healing?
3. What steps can you take to better care for yourself during this process?

What’s Next:

Next week, we’ll focus on the path to healing—embracing grief as part of the recovery process and creating space for intentional growth. Grief is complicated, but healing is possible, and I’ll share tools to help you move forward.

If you find this series helpful, please share it with someone who might need it. And if you’re walking alongside someone grieving, this episode is a great way to understand how to support them with kindness and compassion.

Let’s continue this journey together next week. You’re not alone, and healing is within reach.

For more resources or to connect with me directly, visit my website or email me at marie@mariemonville.com. I’m here to walk alongside you.